How to Be a Hero
What are those unique qualities we call bravery; those almost subconscious qualities that we can't readily put our fingers on whenever we see a hero in action, but somehow recognize every time someone does something out of the ordinary? It's almost as if what they do is superhuman, yet their qualities are far from that, they are qualities we all have to one degree or another - it's only a matter of perfecting them. The most important quality of heroes is being present. Not much is going to get past them. When it is time to act, a hero can't be lost in personal thoughts or concepts; he or she must be street smart, which is the opposite of being academic. Being intelligently and fully in each moment protects the hero from missing what is going down and making false assumptions, because false assumptions are followed by flawed actions. A hero questions things, all things, and is not one to believe blindly or be easily fooled. A hero is never a sheep, and although he or she might act like one to fit into society somewhat, down deep, they are fiercely independent. A hero is always involved. There is a certain power and energy about them, and an untiring resolve because of their passion, which is justice, fairness, and truth. If there is one other thing that defines heroes, it's delight. They find great delight and joy in doing what in their hearts is right, regardless of their own safety. And what is right for a hero never involves hatred, resentment, fear, or jealousy in their hearts. They would never find delight or joy in harming anyone in any way, and only think of helping. If their duties involve harming others to protect the innocent, the harm done is always regretted. Their actions exhibit a certain internal stillness in the face of grave danger. This can only come from a deep understanding of what they are and a coming to terms with that. Afraid of being hurt or making a mistake does not resonate with a hero -- they will act as if they don't even exist. All that exists is the challenge before them, and because they see so clearly, there is no reason for nervousness or hesitation. There is only the direct action that involves them fully. As far as a hero is concerned, to die one death completely, right now, is far better than worrying about dying a thousand cowardly deaths over a lifetime. Common distractions, such as fear of death or fear of danger never distract a hero. A true hero concentrates intently on only what they are facing now, and nothing else, and is never concerned about the outcome. A hero's composure takes attentiveness a step further. Not only is a true hero calm, but unattached to the results of his or her actions as well. Worrying about losing or winning would take a hero's eye off the ball and could prove deadly. Watchful, inquiring, energetic, joyous, internally still, attentive, composed-- these are attributes of a hero, and qualities that we, ourselves, can develop. The most direct way to develop them is to conquer our own minds, because until we conquer our own minds, we can conquer nothing else of consequence. E. Raymond Rock of Fort Myers, Florida is cofounder and principal teacher at the Southwest Florida Insight Center, http://www.SouthwestFloridaInsightCenter.com His twenty-eight years of meditation experience has taken him across four continents, including two stopovers in Thailand where he practiced in the remote northeast forests as an ordained Theravada Buddhist monk. His book, A Year to Enlightenment (Career Press/New Page Books) is now available at major bookstores and online retailers. Visit http://www.AYearToEnlightenment.com
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